Do women that don’t have children by choice regret their decision?

See my blog posts part 1 and part 2

I never had the baby-crazy thing because I am fulfilled, especially artistically. I am creating in a DIFFERENT WAY, and I am living my life’s purpose. Some women – not all of them – that feel a void or empty it’s often because they didn’t find their life purpose and didn’t explore their soul, not because they didn’t have a child. Or, when some women have kids when they are too young and not mature enough and don’t know what else to do with their lives, guess what happens once their kids are adults, they get severe mental illness and depression or they try to blame the kids for becoming independent and not devoting themselves to their mother. Wanting any human being to devote themselves to you… THAT’s selfishness.
I create music to inspire millions of people and children instead of being a woman trying to control and torture 1 or 2 poor little kids to be what she wants them to be because she feels she failed her purpose in her life and she has to control the kids so they do what SHE actually wanted to do.
I also like to involve my music in projects to help children, for example I made a song for an organization that works to prevent children trafficking and that was very important to me. When my songs were on “Dance Moms”, I had a lot of very young girls that became fans of my music and they were empowered by my song about Gratitude called “Thank You”. I also consider being involved in a children’s music project sometime.
“You should have kids for the women that cannot have kids”. This is absurd and unrealistic! There are orphans and surrogacy out there for them. It’s not like there were no more humans on the planet and we had to repopulate the human race, it’s in fact the complete opposite.

I have never regretted this decision because it is in tuned with what I wanted. You don’t regret not doing what you don’t want to do. I would have regretted it if I had had children.
As the years went by it was only reinforced naturally. My GYN gave me a whole speech about it and I said No it’s not for me. The doctor bringing it up is a bit weird. It’s almost like women’s womb don’t belong to them, and they are having their uterus looked at like a cash machine for them as nowadays in the US the pregnancies and deliveries can cost between 5,000 to 30,000 up to 200,000 WITH insurance (especially with complications).
Plus, over the years I saw people struggling raising children, children and adults with psychological emotional traumas because they were unwanted or wanted for the wrong reasons, and I felt that my decision was natural AND REALLY smart. I also feel the Earth is overpopulated and it’s a bit of a natural selection too.
I now look back on my life and I feel “Oh god I am so glad I didn’t have any children”.

See part 4 in 2 weeks. Until then, listen to my Childfree song and sing along the lyric video below.